My main point over here was that a 4 year old child is too young to be shaped into anything. Way too young… One philosophical example is that you do not start trimming a tree when it’s only a seedling, you wait till it is slightly older then a sapling - Then you start giving it a shape, otherwise you’ll end up killing the tree.
Therefore I say again, first wait till the child develops a few identifiable personality traits of his or her own - Only then can a parent be fully justified to build parameters around the kid regarding what is and isn’t allowed in the home… Please see similarminds DOT com for more information in this issue. That page has a wealth of information about the 16 different types of Jung’s personalities.
I by the way am 33, and my profession is related to high end science (exactly of what nature, I will only disclose in a private message). How I came to this was firstly because no one forced me to do anything against my will - And secondly, I always had freedom to explore anything I liked (even when it annoyed others around me).
I of course have a wonderful true story about myself to tell you all (when I was 7 years old), but I will first wait and see how this message from me is interpreted.
