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Originally posted by reza khan:
I know Brenda what u mean by the "crimes" but why a person do it when he knows that, if he does this there is this penalty, and why does Allah wants 4 witness which is almost impossible so that when u know that this is the penalty which is severe, the fear of Allah will stop u from commiting this act and u wouldnt even go that far to actually comitting it. Think about it.
[This message has been edited by reza khan (edited April 23, 2002).]**
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I do understand what you are saying, and I always respect your thoughts on all subjects, but why do people do things, even though they are wrong and they know that there will be severe penalities? I think the answer is very simple, because human kind is weak. No excuse but that is the reason. As to why does Allah want 4 witness, how could I possibly answer that question?
Now my own feelings on the subject of adultery and sex outside of marriage. I don't think there really is any reason for a person to do this. I have never understood this sort of behaviour and I never will. God gave us the ability to think and reason, and not to act as the animals do.
I have had many people in my life tell me that I am a prude because of the way I feel about certain issues. I rarely watch tv, because of the content of the shows(Certain things were just meant to be private, between a husband and a wife. Some of the things that flash across the tv screen, just make my skin crawl),Movies!!! I haven't been to a movie in 20 years.(The ones made for adults are just to sleezy, and I am past the stage of life, where I want to watch smurfs, or whinnie the pooh, so I just don't go), I hate the so called "adult" entertainment industry, I do not believe in the idea of married people having friends of the opposite sex(Just leads to, too many problems.Even with singles, too much casual contact can lead to problems.), I never have and never will understand why people use drugs, or get drunk(when you don't have your wits about you, you are much more likely to do something wrong), in many ways I think it was better when the wife stayed at home and cared for the family, while the husband went out and earned the living(Children felt more safe,secure, and had more guidence and it made them better people), I hate the fact that our government, in it's great wisdom, allows women to kill their unborn children because they just don't want a child or perhaps it will interfer with their career. I could list a lot of other things, but I think you get the idea.
Trust me, it isn't easy being me in the culture I grew up in.
I could not act in this manner, because even if no other human on Earth ever knew about it, God would know, and I would be too ashamed. When you go against the laws of God, it is like you are spitting in his face, and like you have let him down, and he is the one that gave me my life. Who am I to disappoint God?
But could I stone someone to death or whip them one time, much less a hundred, I don't think I could. I feel guilty if I kill a bug, so how could I possibly kill another human?
Brenda
Hope for the best, prepare for the worst!!!