Some people say not even women stay virgin that long, married or un-married.
Most guys I know either got married early or ‘did it’ by their early twenties.
But I am 30 and still a virgin.
Is it something to be ashamed of or should I be proud of it?
I was never so concerned about it until recently when I heard that those men who marry late(after 25) have a high risk of impotency after few years of their marriage. This has made me worried, can anyone tell me if this info is wrong or right? Can you provide any sources of information in this regard?
You should be ashamed, extremely ashamed of yourself. You wasted 30 years of your precious life. To cleanse yourself of this stain on your repute, you have to abstain for the rest of your life.
its a so so so and so common observation that usually men marry in 30s coz thats the age when they are done with their education, have some financial status, they know what they are doing (career wise) plus they are mature enough to take bigger responsibilities like having a family.
if u are so worried, then go ahead and get married. btw fyi its not something shocking to be virgin in age of 30 or even above.
I'm sure there are plenty of girls who abstain even if they're single and in their 30s. It is sad that most of the guys you know couldn't hold onto their pants longer... maybe you should find some new friends. But if you're so concerned, you're 30 years old... you must be done with your education and financially secure, so just find the right person and get married to prevent these thoughts.
I don't know about the impotency thing, never heard of that.
I was never so concerned about it until recently when I heard that those men who marry late(after 25) have a high risk of impotency after few years of their marriage. This has made me worried, can anyone tell me if this info is wrong or right? Can you provide any sources of information in this regard?
That's not true.
Impotency can occur from many reasons...not just age of first time sex alone.
Hey you're definitely not the only guy who's in his 30s and virgin.. as for being impotent if marrying late - that's definitely NOT true so you can take it easy.
LOL! i cant believe this thread..............** a high risk of impotency** at 30 years old?!?!
its when you hit 70 odd that happens!! I think you need to get married now....
LOL! i cant believe this thread..............** a high risk of impotency** at 30 years old?!?!
its when you hit 70 odd that happens!! I think you need to get married now....
You didn't understand my question. What I meant to ask was** 'if you abstain for the first 30 years of life, then you have a high risk of early impotency'.**
The possible reason that I heard was **if you do not use any part of your body for long enough, it becomes weak or dysfunctional.
And since you’ve made it to 30 so pure…aren’t you the least bit curious if you could go for the next 30 years in the same way??? Aim for the Guinness World Records and get your 15 minutes of fame and your name immortalized in print. I wonder if there’s a category for a such a brave feat?
but i am not 30 yet, guess i still have some time.
