3 THINGS THAT CONFUSE ME

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luv marriage? um i thought it was due to his job problemz..
does NE one think it was a luv marriage?

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^I've never heard the "job problems" reasoning. They knew each other; he respected her and she respected him. Love and caring for each other could have been involved.

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i have a friend near paris, pakistanese, she had arranged marriage one year ago…and learnt to know her hubby through phone while he was in pak:D…mashallah it worked very really well and they are so much in love now:blush:

i think it’s very important to have very good comunication with your parents…don’t hide anything from them, that way they will be able to choose a partner for you the best…but if you hide somethings and are not totally honest with them about your likes, and dislikes and desires for the future..then problem will maybe arise.
you should remeber to allways make sure with the guy before marraige that most important issues such as: family, in laws, money, carreer, children and place to live, are decided and agreed btw you two (and your two families:D)

good luck girl:blush:

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Muhammad became a merchant and one of his employers was **Khadijah](Khadija bint Khuwaylid - Wikipedia), a widow then forty years old. The young twenty-five-year old Muhammad had impressed Khadijah, and she proposed to him in the year 595.**


N even if the marriage was due to luv and caring..it took place before the revelation of Quran..!

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^^ That sure doesnt sound like a "Job Problem"...

The first step to love is being impressed and how would you expect Khadijah (RAA) to propose to Muhammed (SAW) without actually coming to like/love him?

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well i guess uski kismat achi thi becoz c’moooooooon
over da phone getting to know ure ife partner its just plain weird
(@parisenoor je de posait juste des question tkt shui encor loin de ce stage la jai ke 15 ans:D )

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I know that is true..but that was even before Muhammed knew he is a prophet .. and that was before Quran existed..
the rules werent there..they came after!
And then all other marriages werent due to luv..!

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o sh!t i shaked this womans hand 2day who extended it at work, i didnt know!

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:rolleyes: