3 month old and TV

Ladies i need your help,
My almost four month old baby loves to watch TV. He watches tv at least an 1 hour a day (not at one time.) Now i know it’s bad for babies to watch TV but what other activities are there for them. Are there some OK to watch movies? He mainly watches TV while my mom is taking care of him during the day. In the evening my husband and I keep him busy. My ammi plays with him…he has a bouncer chair, an activity/gym mat, mobiles and a jumper (that he can’t use yet.) But else can she do with him.

Did any other mothers let their babies watch TV at such a young age? I feel horrible.

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I didn't do it for long periods of time, but a little while was fine. According to the pediatrician, she was not going to get addicted. She's just stimulated by the colors, lights, and sounds.

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i didnt even think abt asking the pediatrician...will ask her at his 4 month check up. thanks!

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Rabia, if your baby is in a bouncer tell ur mom to take it with her wherever she is in the house whatever she is doing. My mom used to put Jr. in the car seat, while she was cooking all the while reading naat or short religious things, she even had the radio going on the Quran channel. When my dad came home he would play with Jr. and then put Jr. on his tummy while they had lunch. No TV for Jr. till he was almost 16 months old. and even now I don't like him watching TV but I don't know what to do... i'm not too well myself so inshAllah once I have some energy hope to start playing with him.

Kids love being talked to and they really mimic our facial expressions so have ur mom keep him around regardless of what she is doing and inshAllah that will prove very beneficial for him.

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mine is the same- he watches the kids educational channel which shows pre-school cartoons for about 15-20 minutes in the morning while i brush my teeth, get changed, etc. and make his breakfast. after that, i play with him, read to him, he plays in his activity center, bounces around in his jolly jumper, takes naps, etc. the only time he watches otherwise is if i'm watching which has gotten less and less because i find theres so much more to do around the house in my "free" time while he naps! an hour a day should be fine- sometimes you just need a break too!

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At 3 months of age mine was not watching TV,or so I like to think.I very well remember we used to put her on the floor,on her play mat and her head faced the TV,face away.she couldn’t see it that much.
As she grew older she started watching it,not a lot but still.Now at 20 months of age it is an altogether different story..:hinna:
Mama is given the ‘mote’ first thing in the morning and is told to turn out the ‘tee’ and tune in to Mickey Mouse…:frowning:
Breakfast is impossible without her pal Mickey…I am guilty of putting her in front of the tV when I have to do something and don’t want her around,like maybe cooking or a quick shower if she is awake.

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I did ! I had limited time in my hands and I was and am also working so a few things were beyond my control but she usually watched baby tv and according to my experience it was not harmful for her.

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Please read this article by Sue Palmer who’s a child development expert, according to her there should be 0 hour TV for under 2’s. She explains how technology harms our kids. I highly recommend her book Toxic Childhood for everyone to read.

In the last twenty or so years, the lifestyle of families in the developed world has changed beyond recognition. Back in the early-1990s, TV was limited to four home-grown channels, few families owned a computer, and the phone was tethered by a wire to the wall. Mum was usually at home, while children played games outside.Two decades later, most families have twenty-four hour multi-channel TV coverage, access to the whole world via the web and internet, and mobile phones that also take photos, videos and can be used for texting, gaming and even social networking. Mum’s more likely to be at work, so children are probably indoors, watching TV or chatting on MSN or Bebo. Play now happens indoors on a Playstation, games on a Gameboy, and most children have a wide array of screen-based entertainment in their bedrooms.You don’t have to be a Luddite, desperate to abandon technological advances and go back in time to some mythical golden age, to be worried about the effects of too much technology on young children’s development.As the eminent neuroscientist Professor Susan Greenfield has said, a screen-based lifestyle provides ‘a gratifying, easy-sensation ‘yuk and wow’ environment, which doesn’t require a young mind to work….We cannot park our children in front of the TV and expect them to develop a long attention span.’

Screens and brains

The reason I started researching ‘toxic childhood syndrome’ a decade ago was my concern that changes in our lifestyles might be behind the massive increases in developmental conditions.ADHD (attention deficit hyperactivity disorder), dyslexia and autism are called ‘developmental disorders’ because children who seem fine when they’re born don’t develop as expected. There’s a physical explanation for all these conditions – glitches in children’s brain structure or the chemical balance of the brain – and often they’re hereditary. But most scientists believe environmental influences can add to the problem (in some children they might even create it). There’s research beginning to come through suggesting that an excessively screen-based culture could play a part, particularly in the first few years when neural pathways are forming in the brain.
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Attention deficit disorder**
One research study looked at how watching TV affected children under the age of two. For every hour of TV they watched per day, there was a 9% increase in attention deficit by the time the child was seven. The researchers thought that rapid changes of image on TV could make an immature brain go into overdrive – so when the child looks away from the screen, real life is boring.
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Dyslexia**
Dyslexia is mainly caused by problems in processing the individual sounds of language (the c-a-t of cat). Children learn to process these sounds in the first year or so of life, so they need to plenty of real-life ‘conversations’ with adults to provide the language data. If TV, email and so on distract adults’ attention, there are fewer opportunities for these conversations. And although children – even babies – seem happy to be plugged into an electronic babysitter, it isn’t exposing them to the interactive real-life language they need. And, of course, as children grow older, the availability of TV means they’re less keen to practise reading.
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Autism (particularly Asperger’s syndrome)**
Children with a predisposition to autism find social contact difficult. They are thus often drawn to screen-based activity – and since children with such a predisposition are difficult to engage with, their carers may find the electronic babysitter provides welcome relief. A US study recently found a strong link between autism and the number of hours spent watching TV by children under three. At the same time UK researchers were discovering that six- to eight-year-olds now prefer to look at a blank screen rather than a human face…See also Articles: The dangers of screen-gazing and Dancing with the devil

Screens and marketing

Almost all the screen-based entertainment with which children now fill so much of their time is financed by marketing – ads, internet pop-ups, product placement on websites and social networks, and so on. Films and TV programmes almost always have product tie-ins, so even a public service broadcaster like the BBC has stuff to sell to children. From the moment a baby is born, there’s a vast army of marketers and media manipulators who are working hard to make him or her in to a little consumer.See Info and links: The commercialisation of childhood.
Articles: Why pink makes me see red and Child exploitation 21st century style.

Real play versus junk play

British children are estimated to spend between five and six hours a day on screen-based entertainment. During this time they’re not engaging in the outdoor, loosely-supervised play that has been children’s birthright for millennia. So it’s not just too much screen-gazing that poses a danger to overall development, but the substitution of this junk play for real play with real people in the real world.See Info and links: Out to play
Articles: Boys need to be boys, for all our sakes

TV and children’s behaviour

Children imitate what they see, and since many of them spend much of their time watching angry, violent or manipulative behaviour on TV, DVD and computer games, we can’t be surprised if they pick up these behaviour patterns. They also imitate what they hear, which may well include the suggestive, sexual or ‘bad’ language on popular music stations and downloads.Since the consumer culture is so dependent on pester power, children may also assume that their parents are there to indulge them and that boundaries are there to break. As an eminent New York psychologist put it: ‘It’s part of the official advertising world view that your parents are creeps, teachers are weirdos and idiots, authority figures are laughable, nobody can really understand kids except the corporate sponsor’.See Articles: Screen culture and bad behaviour.

Old versus new literacy

There is copious evidence from neuroscience that learning to read and write hugely increases the human beings’ intellectual potential – it ‘changes the functional architecture of the brain’ in ways that make us more rational, logical and civilised. While digital technology extends our brain-power in many other beneficial ways, there’s growing concern that introducing children to digital learning too early may make it more difficult for them to develop ‘old-fashioned’ literacy skills.See Info and links: Screens versus BooksFor more information on this topic, see the work of Dr Aric Sigman.
Of course, some commentators, such as Ben Goldacre, claim that these concerns are unwarranted. This is him debating the issue on Newsnight with Aric Sigman.Back to info & linkshttp://www.suepalmer.co.uk/modern_childhood_info_the_effects.php

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^ i think no matter what philosophy you prescribe to, the key as in all things in life, is moderation. if the tv babysits your kids for hours on end, then yes, they might develop adhd, dyslexia or autism. but i also think prescribing these disorders to just watching tv is a very simplistic point of view.

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errr nowhere did the article imply this.

Also, everyone has his own idea of "moderation", for example, OP's 3 months old watches 1 hour a day which I think is too much for her age.

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The article is implying it and on top of that, she has absolutely no references to the studies she refers to. So as far as the reader is concerned, she's pulling this stuff out of her arse.

I don't have a TV and I doubt I will get one when I have children but this stuff is just bizarre. The dyslexia paragraph is a joke, does she even understand what it is?

Oh... and one of my brother's, who is a twin has asperger's (his twin doesn't) and the manifestations of social problems where there when he was a baby. This is a condition that scientists don't really understand. I don't understand how this woman who has no such credentials can assume to have figured it all out.

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And I'm not saying her suggestions may not be good but the way she is presenting them and using shock tactics by making tenuous links is ridiculous to the point where I would not even want to know what else she has to say.

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^ what stoppit said.

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I personally believe 3 months of age is too young for a baby to watch tv. I am trying to look back to that age and i remember taking her in the shower with me in her bouncer and just really taking quick showers or waiting till hubs came home so he could watch her while i cooked/cleaned/whatever needed to be done. We try our best to follow the recommended guidelines of not letting her watch more than 2 hours total tv time in day. That includes the 30 day shred she loves to workout too (i know, shame on me lol, my toddler works out to the shred while i laze around on the couch lol).

I also notice that if i let her sit infront of the tv too much, she develops this attitude and is very cranky. I am not sure why it happens but it happens every single time she is infront of the tv too much. At her age (almost 3 in feb IA) she also picks up a lot of things from her cartoons and we have to monitor exactly what she is watching and might repeat in the future. Ofcourse at 3-4 months of age you really dont have that concern.

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Thank you ladies for all your input, it’s all very helpful. I started to move him away frm TV (by turning him around, or turning the TV off.) Even thought the above article seems more opinionated and less factual...i got a scare from the autism section. One of my first cousins is autistic so that kind of hit home.