Kamar did look devastated when I watched the news relating to this crime, probably because he knows deep down that if it wasn’t for certain actions this whole thing could have been avoided. Yes, he did the wrong thing, but I think that this will haunt him for the rest of his life and in all honesty no-one should have to live with something like this. So many lives have been crushed by this heartbreaking crime, including those of the criminals.
Many marriages break up, the dignified way to deal with these things is to move on and look forward. Divorce still has a stigma attached to it in many parts of Pakistan, but revenge to divorce should never be death, if we all started doing that I’d hate to think where the world would be.
Deeba I do agree that many girls get treated badly, they often marry men who already have girlfriends here and are just marrying to please their parents. To some degree the families are to blame for putting pressure on their children to marry a certain relative rather than putting their child’s happiness first. I’m not suggesting that was the case here, but I’m just talking generally.
With regards to the deceased family members, I pray that Allah swt grants them a place in Jannat and gives their families sabr at such a difficult time. Ameen.