It's not self loathing.
Pakistan's geopolitical prostitution
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Your attitude in #2 is a proof of #1 (for any Pakistani). Only anti-pakistan Hinduists would relish using such terms. You disagree with your own country's policies. That's fine. People generally reserve these derogatory terms for other countries not their own.
Zia and Ayub and Bhutto all played their part and so did every other country head. Using the words like prostitution is counterproductive.