Re: 2nd Wife
I find it interesting, the question: should a man tell his current wife before marrying the second wife.
I presume the man would tell the potential second wife that he is married before marrying her. I find it sad that he cannot extend the same courtesy to his current wife. How is that equal? The second wife is given a choice: she may choose to be in a marriage with a man already married. The first wife is not: "honey, i got married two weeks ago, i didn't tell you before b/c you might object to it".
How sad.