my younger sister yesterday 2nd time lost her baby boy. last time in 2009 (end) she was fully 9 months preg suddenly she start labour pain and finlay normal delievery but baby was not alive. and this time she was 32 weeks preg and start having pain . doc try to stop pain but no use… then they finaly deliver the baby (normal delievery). Baby was alive they put him in special unit but after few hours he died. why this happening to her? she has one daughter (1st child) but then 2nd & 3rd time she lost two boys. can any body have clue? she is in Pak some women says that she has some kind of deiseas (thahra) but only for boys time. any body know about it?
Please prey for her Allah Pak give her a lots of Sabar. Ameen
May Allah give her sabr to go through this.
How old is your sister?
There are many factors why pregnancies are aborted., 32 weeks is pre-mature but not that much, the baby might have survived, but as Allah wills.
She can take some steps to minimize chances of preterm labour another time, she needs to closely work with her OB/GYN to sort out a plan. Many people in Pakistan (even those who are educated) don't realize when there's a problem that needs close attention by a medical professional.
One thing she can do is not get pregnant again for some time, she needs to build her strength as well as figure out exactly what the problem is, and how to stop it.
She will have to have a totally planned pregnancy and she will need all the emotional/moral support from her family.
BTW I am a qualified medical professional working in Paediatrics so this was my professional opinion on the matter based on your description.
relli v sorry for the mom. dun listen to others... ppl talk all kinds of nonsense. tell her to talk to a medical specialist n find out exactly where lies the prb
sabeena ... inna lillehe wa inna illehi rajeun.. very very sorry for ur dear sisters tragic loss.. may Allah swt bless her and her family with strength and the stamina to cope and inshallah may Allah swt bless her with safe and happy pregnancies in the near future AMEEN xx
very sorry 2 hear about this loss.... ur sister should discuss her case wth a specialist n should plan her next pregnancy according 2 doctors advice n should have regular check ups so that no problem occurs only doctor n specialist can tell if there is any problem or its just the fate n bad luck but now she should give gap 4 her next pregnacy so that her body recovers fully n strong enough 4 pregnacy my prayers r wth her
I m so sorry to hear about your sister's loss. May Allah give her sabar and bless her with a healthy baby soon.
I have never heard of such disease (may be it does exist) I think she should seek a 2nd opinion from a well experienced ob/gyn and then plan her pregnany as per doctor's advise .if u need names and contact details of obgyn in khi then PM me I will send some 2 u
I'm sorry for the loss of your sister. As some people mentionned above, get a second opinion with another doctor;
Your family will be in my prayers.
May allah swt bless your sister and your family.
Ameen ! Sum'Ameen !
i know, that some girls have genetically problems with becoming a BOY. coz both were boys. she should go to a good specialist. net every one knows that.