Hey everyone just need some
Support as im pregnant with babyno. 2 and husband literally doesnt give a damn about me or the baby… Also recently moved in with inlaws and all he seems to care abt is making his parents happy and proud of him for which he is willing to go to any extent i-e spending max time till late nyt with them wprking with his dad also spending the weekends with them and literally keeping us house bound so we dont miss out on anything his parwnts r upto.. Baby no.1 n i have already been having a hard time adjusting to this new life plus a new pregnancy to deal with and there is zero support from the hubby n in laws. Its just stressing me out to the point that i want to permanently move to my parents house( which he thinks is a very good idea too as im “better taken care off” there :@ )… He is just acting so weird! We hardly get to see him forget family time like we had previously 
have tried talking to him fighting with him and spent months at my parents but nothing seems to bother him . Pls tell me how to bring back that family bond we had and how to make him fall in love with his kids again he just doesnt care :(((
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Sounds like he was away from his parents for a while? If so, it's only natural for him to want to spend all the time with this parents. Maybe you are being extra sensitive since you aren't use to sharing him with anybody. Give it just time. Are you having a hard/harder time this pregnancy?
Give him some time to adjust to this. How are the grandparents with you and the kid?
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The preg is def harder this time around has i have a baby to take care off plus the whole inlaws situation ... You are right maybe im being a lil sensitive but its just almost like we dont
Exist for him. His parents r horrible i mean they dont care how our relationship os being harmed infact his mom keeps telling me that i should get a break and move to my mums n leave her son with them
For a while :/ she also keeps complaining how batatmeez my baby is and that my husband n i shouldnt spoil her too much becuz of which my hubby has started being super mean n rude to the baby she cant be with him for more than two mins without crying her lungs out :@
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you still haven't clarified how long they been away from each other, or how long has it been since they moved in with you guys?
How old is your baby?
I dif. know second pregnancies are so much harder since we there is a toddler to take care of as well. I am 37 weeks AH and have a 4 1/2 year old as well. It is a struggle to get everything done. But my hubby helps a lot esp. since i have been asked not to pick up stuff from the floor, climb stairs etc by the physical therapist.
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mashaAllah :) My older kid is 2 mashaAllah ... Hubby was away frm his fmly for two yrs n its been a rlly tough 1 yr now that we have moved bak 😩 I thot the new baby would make things better ,as my first preg ( away from his family just the two of us) was amazZZZZing 😔 But this time its just so dffrnt he doesnt wven wanna come to th doc appointments wid me!
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I think you are over thinking all of it. My hubby didn't join me for the doc appointment the first time around and he is more absent this time around. You don't need that extra help or hand during your appointment like you did during the first time around.
Was this pregnancy planned and both of you wanted it at this time?