Re: 2nd marriage!
You say the guy has not been married before? Like Lusi said, I think she can dress a little if not a lot. And afterall, if you look @ it positively, it's not like it is the end of the world for her after her first marriage. The guy has not been married before and plus this is her moment (regardless of whether its her second marriage) so she shud enjoy it. Having kids does not mean you cannot enjoy your precious moments. I pray that may Allah make everything easier for her Insha'Allah, give her ajar and make her (along with rest of her family) walk on the path to Jannah.