Living in a country with not many options to marry in same community sometimes gets hard, expecially when ur parents start worrying even when you dont seem to be worried…
What do you guys think about marrying back home?Is this possible in a way that ur able to get to ‘know’ the person even with a continent in between?
What is ur opinion on this? would you? is there something to worry about?
No offence to the people in pakistan, but i wudnt prefer this.
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Mods, could you please move this thread to life and relationships?
thank you.
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It is definitely possible but it requires a lot of willingness from both sides to adapt to someone who is from an entirely different culture and background.
People in Pakistan despise this kind of match as much as you do as they don't have a very positive opinion of youngsters raised abroad, they accept rishtas from abroad only if the benefits outweigh their concerns.
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what's the cause of this negative view they have of abroad raised desis. and what exactly are they supposed to do if people have this twisted view of them then? marry nondesis since there is no other choice? i'm not even in that situation yet but it's just messed up the way abcds have to fight this biased view
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I think it's possible and may work out good. I would prefer meeting/seeing this person in real life instead of just pictures and conversations over the phone.
Photoshop does wonders these days!
Re: 26+ single
I think it's possible and may work out good. I would prefer meeting/seeing this person in real life instead of just pictures and conversations over the phone. Photoshop does wonders these days!
should i be worried? ill turn 27 end of the year...
Right now my parents are worried, which is annoying me a lot...
They make everything sound so hopeless and i on the other hand am not feeling hopeless.... am i missing something???
i dont want to take the step of looking for a guy in pakistan... we have not done this yet...
i cant put myself to it..
:'(
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so if i do decide to take that path... how can i get to know the guy before agreeing to some rishta with this distance? is this ok with guys from pk? (not all guys)
Re: 26+ single
Marry early specially the girls. 
26+ and clock is ticking.
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^ I hope thats sarcasm
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