24/7 relationships

Lifestyle Relationships
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how do u deal with people who need 24/7 attention to know that they’re loved?

and i dont mean spouse/gf/bf relationships… just any type. Like family.. brothers/sisters/aunts/uncles/cousins… etc

im quite a family person.. i dont mind hanging out with them. Infact for the past 2 months, they’re the only people ive seen… but i do LOVE my space.. i like to be left on my own for an hour.. or even 5 minutes to gain sanity (if there is such a thing)

but, unfortunately me wanting space is considered “unsociable” and “attitudish” by some… does one really need to be glued to someone they love.. to prove how much they are loved?

im gonan have serious probs when im married i reckon… imagine being with the person ALL the time… yikes

2

I'm the opposite of you. I require a lot of attention.

3

^ really? hmmm i didnt even think u were...

i like attention but in very small doses... im wierd

4

I need my space and privacy. Actually, everyone does!

5

^ tell me bout it…!

ive been deprived of it for a few weeks now.. and when i seek 5 minutes of it, i get a lecture :bummer:

all i wanna do is sit in my room for a few minutes alone…

6

:snooty: I aint talking to you.

7

i need alot of attention but then again,i must have my time alone...every evening i like to go in my room...n sit there alone...read a book or listen to music,just think...do anything.
i know wht u mean sadz.i was like that when i went pak this year...time HAD to be made for everyone,except myself.

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^ So what you are saying is that you are a spoiled brat who likes to have her way all the time.

9

I think it depends... I can be very social and then there are times I want to be left alone too.

Sometimes there are times in our life when we need to have someone with us at almost anytime and other times where we need to be by ourselves. Having been through both I am very understanding and adaptable to the needs of those I care about... if they have always been there for me I will not hesitate to do the same.

What I cannot stand are those people who need you to be there for them all the time... and are always too busy for you. Yeah scatch out all those losers from your phonebook and you'll find more time for the people who matter in your life.

10

:k: couldnt say dat anybetter

I am attention seeker/social to a certain limit but then I need my time off from pple and just being alone. I guess it depends on the type of personality. some pple get bored really fast by being alone.

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Needing attention all the time has got to be some kind of disorder. I can't imagine a well-rounded person that doesn't require some alone time.

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*Originally posted by sadzzz: *
^ really? hmmm i didnt even think u were...

i like attention but in very small doses... im wierd
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no, I wouldn't want attention from everybody. Only certain people. ;)Like in groups or parties, I don't care. I'm fine taking the back seat and remaining unobserved there.

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*Originally posted by MehnazQ: *

no, I wouldn't want attention from everybody. Only certain people. ;)Like in groups or parties, I don't care. I'm fine taking the back seat and remaining unobserved there.
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