Same! I’m the oldest aswell. And yeah you’re so right, this forum is SO amazing, I’m so glad I found it. Another thing me and my mum have found helps is by watching loads of wedding video trailers so we can get loads of unique different ideas rather than just the standard fare.
I know what you mean :/… less than 8 weeks left for me and I haven’t really thought past the waleemah lol, just been so wrapped up in wedding planning biz.