Re: 2010 brides…
Wow..i guess we all have similar fears about our wedding day preps and the future.
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My SIL is getting both my outfits…and even though ive reassured her that I will be happy with whatever she selects…I’m still worried about it. Wedding dresses in the UK are more indian’fied and wasnt sure whether I could get an ‘in’ pakistani style lengha…and dont wanna look out of place…so i passed the responsibilty on to her!
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Will I get on with him…Ive met him a couple of times and then mostly via the internet- chatting…which is very different from face to face interaction!
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His family…will i get on with his extended family…what if i say something wrong (I’m going to have to keep my mouth zipped…untill I suss them all out..dunno who will be on my side). No one in my family knows his…so it really will be like getting to know strangers!
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Will ppl from his side of the family continue to try and cause problems…I dont want ppl saying stuff about me and Im pretty tired from it. (his extended family happen to know my family…but we dont know them).
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Will his family like me..his immediate family…i really want to get on with them and so far they have been great although ive still to meet most…ive basically had to get to know them via the phone and internet!
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Will all the wedding functions go as planned…with no major hiccups..
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I dont tend to make desi food that often…what if they ask me to cook something and i fail miserably…i dont think they will a im there for only three week..but i can see my finace asking me for jokes!!
Komal..i think you’ll look stunning and inshallah so will your devrani…dont think about the fact thats its joint…and in the end its money being saved in the family you’re going into…(although i know it not easy knowing your’re sharing your day with another couple…but you seem to be handling it well).
@hubnubz and Komal…i feel for you there…im 5’1 and actually im not too sure how tall he is!! lol…need to ask him that!