Alhumdulillah everything is done… The lengha is perfect, jewellery matches perfectly, got my shoes and bag, got my mehndi outfit.. All is done… and all to my choice mashallah. I’m marrying the man i’ve loved for the last 9 years… we’ve waited so long for this…
So why am I still so nervous and acting like such a b***h to everyone around me. I feel sick all the time and I can’t sleep.. What’s wrong with me?
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This is the one of the most emotional times in a girls life, so it is understandable that you feel like this. You will be having many conflicting emotions - happiness, excitement, sadness, elation etc - that sometimes the only way to deal with them is to outpour them on to those around you. I am sure that those around you understand this too, and will not take anything you say too harshly.
I can't advise you from a personal aspect as I am not married, but practically I would advise you to stop all of the planning as this will just increase your stress levels. Just enjoy these moments with your family, and maybe even treat yourself and sisters/friends to a spa day.
With regards to not sleeping, drop a few drops of lavendar oil on your pillow - this should hopefully help you sleep.
May Allah bless your marriage and always keep you in good health and happiness b2b.
Alhumdulillah everything is done... The lengha is perfect, jewellery matches perfectly, got my shoes and bag, got my mehndi outfit.. All is done... and all to my choice mashallah. I'm marrying the man i've loved for the last 9 years... we've waited so long for this...
So why am I still so nervous and acting like such a b***h to everyone around me. I feel sick all the time and I can't sleep.. What's wrong with me?
SAME HERE LOVE, im getting married in 10 days, and im stressed and going crazyyy like hell, hopefully im told, itl be ok once im married..so once your married, youll be fine inshallah...wish me lukc too..
thanks
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My friend is getting married in 10 days too - she's also pretty much an emotional train wreck right now - I feel nervous* for* her. But yeah - good luck ladies and make sure (for your own sake), you enjoy your wedding day.
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Nadz is right. It's gonna be ok once the hoopla is over with and things settle down.
But there's a sweetness to this time right before you marry and it will never come 'round again. I was tense in the week or so before my wedding, but I refused to let it bother me. I spent extra time with my mother, I made sure to take care of myself so that I'd look my best on my wedding day, and a few of my good friends came to stay with me a few days before the wedding to help me chill and force me to enjoy myself. And I'm glad they did because I look back on that time as one of the brightest spots in my life.
So make yourself have fun honey. Force a smile on your face, joke around with your family members and friends and let them tease you right back. Instead of getting tense about stuff, try to find the humor in it. It's going to be fine.
:)
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just relax, u have the normal jitters! try to stay calm and enjoy every moment of this wonderful time in ur life! wish u all the best iA!
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Stop the planning and take one day to do nothing but pamper yourself...mani/pedi...haircut/color...massage...knock yourself out and have a ball!
is your wedding on 8th august???
mine too, and one of my friends is getting married on 8th august as well but in pakistan
good of luck to you and congrats
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hey hun
its understandable for you to be nervous, but just relax, and everything is gna be ok. congratulations and good luck, :)
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Its just nerves. Hope all works out and that you have an amazing wedding. Best of luck. :)
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I'm on the 9th of August. It's my birthday on the 8th! I'm trying to enjoy things and not letting things stress me out... but its not working. All my pampering is the week before the wedding. Thinking of taking sleeping tablets to help me sleep...
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if you are super stressed out then you can ask your doctor for something to help you feel less anxious and help you sleep at the same time....but i wouldnt be too keen on that.
Just spend lots of time with your mum and dad and family, go out with your friends for lunch, do some excercise....yoga is an amazing stress releif.
If you have the time and money why not take a little trip with some friends some where?
Pray lots of namaz and do lots of dua. Inshallah everything will be ok!
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Good luck to all the ladies getting married- Dont stress it inshallah all will b well, Im sorry im not the best at advicing. But i wish everyone luck. make sure you enjoy and have fun on your wedding. Its your big day and you have the biggest role. Im sure it will go fine. and dont forget to post pics-
Nadz123 you had so many new threads and new questions- i hope GS ladies (and some men) were a big help to you, You were the most confused one lol.. i cant wait to see pics- good luck chicka :)
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sighz.. pre marital jitters... the best and nothing like them.. enjoy them girlies!!!
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Went for my bridal trial today.. I'm so lucky I've got a lovely MUA who understands what I want. Left there tonight feeling so much calmer... and now she will be a calming influence on the day. Came home and watched girly film with my sister.. Hopefully I'll get some sleep tonight. Thank you all for your advice... :)
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Best of luck, dulhan to be....... INSHALLAH everthing will b fine..
Enjoy ur wedding...
I think its natural…!!