I was reading somewhere recently how our bodies r our tools, Allah (SWT) creates our souls and puts us into these tools for the short time we r on earth. Our souls are Eternal yet our tools are only temporary. Allah (SWT) tells us to invest in our souls seek knowledge ask questions etc etc. yet we choose to invest more time and money in our tools (our physical appearance).
Allah has given us freedom of choice to seek knowledge so how can we be forceful on anyone else? The best advice we can give the next person is the same as Allah (SWT) gives us which is to seek knowledge and make ur own choice