Here's another idea. **Have your husband talk to the guy man-to-man. Men understand men. And perhaps your husband could explain the various **EXPENSES that come with a marriage..........because you're not only responsible for yourself now.........you have another person to consider.........and possibly little ones in the future. Maybe once the 19-year-old guy hears about all the EXPENSES.......he'll be freaked out enough to postpone the wedding until he finds a job or at least graduates with a practical degree. A real-life lesson (kind of like home-economics class, lol) ;)
:D This would be my husbands advice -
At 19 you should have 19 girl friends why aren't you boggin yourself down to one - enjoy life man - travel - eat nihari everyday Forget marriage - pagal ho gaye ho!"
But like I said - he thinks and she thinks they are in LOVE and LOVE conquers all.
They are both heading towards med school so it's a loooooong time before they are both on their feet.
I intent is to nudge them in the right direction.
Kids are really voilatile with their emotions at this age - don't want them to go get hitched in court (but I think the girl is much more smarter than to do that)