i have seen desi girls from pind live in california, and learn english, and wear hollywood hipster clothes. whats the big deal, zoobia.. are goris somehow better commodities than brown-butts?
i wont gonna comment on who is better than who, cuz its easier to say than to do. there are many pind gals moved to urban cities, but i never heard about anyone moving to pind and living there happily. and it is indeed a big deal to HAPPILY adopt culture, ideology, religion and pind lifestyle and leaving behind all the goodies for which people actually migrate from city to city, country to country.
Re: 18 yr old New Zealander goes to PAK to marry a Guy!
i was more impressed with the guy who called his online love from USA to Pakistan and got married. the girl loved our culture and pledged to stay here and become a Pakistani.
I know pakistani guys. I have talked to and gotten rishtas from many of them. Including my own cousins, to friends of my brothers. They're all the same. They'd do anything for going overseas. It's disgusting how desperate they are when it comes to going to the US, UK, or in this case NZ. She is 18! And trust me, at that age girls can believe anyone that shows an ounce of sympathy towards them. He took ADVANTAGE of her age and immaturity level and she married her. HE got what he wanted and she got someone to talk to/make her feel beautiful.
^^^ happens a LOT
Yes, I got rishtas from many of them, from very different backgrounds. Even very wealthy guys in Pakistan would do anything to go overseas, it's not that easy as you assume it to be. My point is SHE IS 18! She doesn't know what she's doing. HE is 27! He knows exactly what he's doing and that is taking advantage of her. I don't know how old you are but 18 year old girls are very immature these days. They think every guy that comes and shows a bit of compassion loves them. It's not about being beautiful, it's about finding someone that understands you. Why do you think so many girls go meeting guys online, because they're fed up with the guys around them. I'm only saying, they both got something out of this. He's 27, and looking at the videos, he seems lower middle class, he seems like he needed some sort of ticket overseas, she was that ticket.
you're talking about 18 year-olds being taken advantage of... I've seen 20 somethings being taken advantage of and then kicked to the curb just after the guy got his stupid status
Right you didn't call it logical either. I've stated my points over and over again, and I'm getting tired of repeating myself. This is what i've seen in many marriages, from people with different socio-economic statuses. It's about the green card, and that's the end of that.
I agree
but there is a minority out there that dont dso it just for the immigration status... (tough to find)
there is only one thing I can say- compared to all the amazing wedding dresses that can be found in pakistan (even the average-priced ones are pretty decent) she got one that was pretty below average (sorry! I know we shouldn't be bashing) - I kinda pity her for it b/c it means no1 cared enough to get this girl a nice wedding dress- I feel like they were thinking "what would a white girl know about what a nice dress is?" so they just got a cheap one.
i wonder if people's opinions'd change if it were a 18 yr old pakistani girl who went to NZ to get married. hmmz!
I would've said 'good for her' if she wasn't just 18..
Oh, and regarding all the guys on here saying how great it is I'd love to see how many of them would let their own teenage sisters go off and do the same thing..
^ I didn't say sisters were possessions but how many Pakistani brothers (or dads or mums) would stand by and not say anything let alone encourage an 18yr-old girl in their family to do something like this. My own brother has no actual say in my choice of partner but doesn't mean he keeps his mouth shut (regardless of whether I listen or not) if he thinks what I'm doing is wrong.. I bet none of u would encourage ur own sisters to do the same yet ur sitting here making out it's great..
This. amazing what gender/religion reversal can do to people's take on a situation.
there is only one thing I can say- compared to all the amazing wedding dresses that can be found in pakistan (even the average-priced ones are pretty decent) she got one that was pretty below average (sorry! I know we shouldn't be bashing) - I kinda pity her for it b/c it means no1 cared enough to get this girl a nice wedding dress- I feel like they were thinking "what would a white girl know about what a nice dress is?" so they just got a cheap one.
I see this happening alot with goris. They almost always end up looking like they came out of a bollywood movie and not in the best way.
