you’re just creating a very broad stereotype about what kind of people pakistani guys are. are there lots of guys who would do anything to come overseas? yes. but i know just as many guys that are going to school in the states and canada that can’t wait to go back home and work there. and this girl obviously isn’t stupid. she knew what she was getting into by going to lahore, and more power to her! she willingly lived in a foreign country for 6 months, and that’s a lot more than most pakistani girls i know who just visit for 2 weeks every other year and can’t wait to get out of there. unless you know the guy or girl personally, you can’t really say what their motives were.
last thing- i’m a “desi girl” (now i have the song stuck in my head..) and i think i’m okay with what they did. maybe it’s because my parents are from different cultures, maybe not. either way, worrying about their wellbeing isn’t going to change the situation.