Dunno, y ur being so melodramatic, I've never mentioned anyone being ostracised. Bit in bold was my point yet strangely all the guys on here are making out they would be fine with it. As if they'd would be happy with their sisters going off to some African country to marry a guy she had met on the internet lol
Oh, and yeah divorce isn't such a big deal in normal circumstances but it's hardly normal if there are kids involved and mum and dad are in different countries (Islamically dad normally gets custody whilst in western countries the opposite is true so what happens then?? Just one example of possible problems.. it is nowhere near as easy as ur trying to make out)..
Reminds me of the Imran and Jemima situation.. good intentions but too much for the woman to deal with, even tho she was flying back to London on a regular basis (and even after she converted to Islam which I don't think that NZ girl has done)..
Dunno, why you are being so obsessed with what the brothers here would or would not do.
As I have said divorce is a perfectly acceptable option, unless the girl is staunch Catholic, which I doubt. It is good that the NZ girl has not felt pressurized to convert; she would not feel compelled to abide by Islamic injuctions, whatever they are, should she choose to opt for divorce. In any case, Islamic laws cannot be enforced in a non-Islamic country. Since the guy decided to move to such a country, he would have to abide by the family laws of the land as well, even, and as is likely, they might prove detrimental to him in the case of divorce.