^^Oh the self-righteousness. Rest assured no one keeps their mouth shut in matters like these. **The khandan walay would most probably urge her to consider, if she has not already, the consequences of her decision but that is pretty much all they can do. **If your adult sister, or relative or whatever, has made a decision, and is determined to marry someone of her choice, it is better, even if you don't completely agree, to give her your best wishes than to ostracize her. .
Dunno, y ur being so melodramatic, I've never mentioned anyone being ostracised. Bit in bold was my point yet strangely all the guys on here are making out they would be fine with it. As if they'd would be happy with their sisters going off to some African country to marry a guy she had met on the internet lol
Oh, and yeah divorce isn't such a big deal in normal circumstances but it's hardly normal if there are kids involved and mum and dad are in different countries (Islamically dad normally gets custody whilst in western countries the opposite is true so what happens then?? Just one example of possible problems.. it is nowhere near as easy as ur trying to make out)..
Reminds me of the Imran and Jemima situation.. good intentions but too much for the woman to deal with, even tho she was flying back to London on a regular basis (and even after she converted to Islam which I don't think that NZ girl has done)..