18 yr old New Zealander goes to PAK to marry a Guy!

[Deeba1234]

@yahooo

UUhhhhhh. Now what can we poor brothers say.

For your information, sisters are not possessions. And I am sure they are perfectly capable of making decisions on their own. **I trust my sister and I would rather she marries the guy she prefers instead of feeling compelled to put up with someone not compatible with her simply because her family deemed the match fit for her.
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This girl in question CAN get divorce if the guy turns out to be a self-obsessed-citizenship greedy-monster, as some of the posters here seem to dread. I am sure that is a perfectly acceptable option and that there is no stigma attached to divorce in NZ.

For Pete’s sake, it is not as if the poor innocent bechari teenage lass has consented to bondage or something so harrowing she is doomed to a life of agony.

Obviously she should be with whoever she wants but no need to rush off to get married at 18 to someone in another (much poorer) country after only chatting to them online.. I don’t believe parents/family should stand in the way of their kids wanting to marry who they want but there’s no reason to let all common sense go out the window and divorce might not hold the same social stigma for girls in NZ that it does in desi culture but there are practical problems like what happens if they have kids etc.