Ok, so just because, as you claim, you got rishtas from “many of them” you became expert on the mentality of Pakistani men. Nice. I am sorry I know a few such people myself but none of them has been afflicted with a “going overseas” bug. Could it be that they are well off enough to enjoy a comfortable lifestyle in their own country or that they are well educated? I am certain that such a well educated person, no matter how “desperate”, can apply for immigration to NZ-or, for that matter, Australia and Canada-and get it. Marrying a gori/desi settled overseas is hardly a requisite for a life of bliss abroad!
Eighteen year olds are not so immature who can be easily taken advantage of. Heck the guy was not even present in the country to be able to threaten retribution if she did not marry him. Hopefully she considered the pros and cons of making her decision but the fact remains that she married him because she CHOSE to. Besides, since the girl in question is reasonably beautiful, I think it is ridiculous to assume that could have found no one in her native country to “talk to/make her feel beautiful.”