I know pakistani guys. I have talked to and gotten rishtas from many of them. Including my own cousins, to friends of my brothers. They’re all the same. They’d do anything for going overseas. It’s disgusting how desperate they are when it comes to going to the US, UK, or in this case NZ. She is 18! And trust me, at that age girls can believe anyone that shows an ounce of sympathy towards them. He took ADVANTAGE of her age and immaturity level and she married her. HE got what he wanted and she got someone to talk to/make her feel beautiful.