it works both ways. what about white girls that have “silly fantasies” about marrying guys from far-off, exotic countries? i know plenty of people who think that way. it’s all about perspective.
my dad is from karachi and my mom is from a painfully small city in minnesota- the places couldn’t be more different, but we lived in karachi for over 10 years and did just fine considering the “conditions.” just like there are conditions there, there are conditions here in the states too.
it might sound like a strange situation, but as long as they’re happy who are we to question it?