I know pakistani guys. I have talked to and gotten rishtas from many of them. Including my own cousins, to friends of my brothers. They’re all the same. They’d do anything for going overseas. It’s disgusting how desperate they are when it comes to going to the US, UK, or in this case NZ. She is 18! And trust me, at that age girls can believe anyone that shows an ounce of sympathy towards them. He took ADVANTAGE of her age and immaturity level and she married her. HE got what he wanted and she got someone to talk to/make her feel beautiful.
^^^ happens a LOT
Yes, I got rishtas from many of them, from very different backgrounds. Even very wealthy guys in Pakistan would do anything to go overseas, it’s not that easy as you assume it to be. My point is SHE IS 18! She doesn’t know what she’s doing. HE is 27! He knows exactly what he’s doing and that is taking advantage of her. I don’t know how old you are but 18 year old girls are very immature these days. They think every guy that comes and shows a bit of compassion loves them. It’s not about being beautiful, it’s about finding someone that understands you. Why do you think so many girls go meeting guys online, because they’re fed up with the guys around them. I’m only saying, they both got something out of this. He’s 27, and looking at the videos, he seems lower middle class, he seems like he needed some sort of ticket overseas, she was that ticket.
you’re talking about 18 year-olds being taken advantage of… I’ve seen 20 somethings being taken advantage of and then kicked to the curb just after the guy got his stupid status
Right you didn’t call it logical either. I’ve stated my points over and over again, and I’m getting tired of repeating myself. This is what i’ve seen in many marriages, from people with different socio-economic statuses. It’s about the green card, and that’s the end of that.
I agree
but there is a minority out there that dont dso it just for the immigration status… (tough to find)