DBā¦ youāre not married yet na, shaadi kay baad ki expectations are very different and your responsibilities kind of double up. You are not doing only your own chores, you are doing your husbands also. In our culture the wife is expected to do everything for the husband while he will just sit on the couch watching TV and sipping tea, relaxing after he comes back from work and then he will also say kay ātum mairay paas bethtee hee nahinā ā¦ you are expected to give him company and if youāre living with in-laws, phir tau aur zyaada zimmedaari hoti hai, and its nothing hardā¦ those things are just time consuming, so you basically donāt get time to do any personal stuff or studying done.
Like whenever I go to my susraal, I step into my bedroom only at night for sleeping, baaqi saara din kuch na kuch masroofiyat hoti hee hai. Aur kuch nahin tau MIL needs company, which while not expected from the daughters is definitely expected from the bahu plus maids ki supervision
I can definitely understand that, but when something needs to be done it needs to be done. I think you should get married if you find a good proposal and still have 2/3 years left of your education. IMO marriages comes before education. I guess I have just seen so many people regret not getting married a little earlier, but than again I have also seen some regert getting married so early. I guess the grass is always greener on ther other side.
WAIT YOU HAVE A MAID??? lol
So much depends on the couple. THe person I most admire on the planet is my SIL who married at 16. Sheās a better hostess than Martha Stewart. She is more beautiful than a movie star. She always wears a smile, is always happy, always has positive things to say. Even if she critisizes, it doesnt seem like critisizm and you rush off immediately to follow her advice. She was more mature at age 16 than most 35 year olds Iāve ever met. Soā¦live and let live yeah? Whats right for one is really wrong for another.
MashAllah that sounds perfect. I hope to be that wife some day!
