Re: 16 civilians killed by US soldier!!!
Just as theres a handful of episodes in the last decade where anyone has come anywhere near to Breivik’s crime. You’re offering a variant of the numerator/denominator logic that is far too lenient.
Im sorry but official forums tend to police themselves quite strongly. You give the example of Pakistani society, but on GS you wont find much condoning of suicide bombing or acid throwing or honor killing. I used to moderate the forums and I used to argue strongly against letting those views being put on the forum. Doesnt mean there arent forums where suicide bombing is supported (cant say I know of any forums where acid throwing/honor killing is). I can tell you now, I can find plenty of americanforumswhere the primary concern is the impact on the ‘mission’, or on getting angry that Obama dared to apologize, and I can find forums where the deaths are openly celebrated. Mostly rednecks and republicans admittedly, but then again thats a sizable portion of the american army (see hereand here)
Plenty of American politicians and commentators have criticized Obama for apologising to Afghans for an american soldier killing 16 people. Ive seen american commentary on the atrocities you mention that has either soft pedalled american crimes, or even supportedthem.
People do disassociate from crimes the motivation of which they share, but they feel the actions are counter-productive. Case in point people like Zaid Hamid who may be very anti-India, and may be responsible for someone committing terrorism in India after hearing their words, but will say this is bad for us or this is a conspiracy against Pakistan. Likewise there were neo-nazi forums that lamented Breivik’s actions because they felt the media would use this to go against them. This is what I see happening in American forums, theres plenty who feel that the main problem with the murders is that its an inconvenience/hazard for american soldiers/mission. The underlying demonization of Muslims that leads to these killings remains very much a part of their mental framework.