11-year gap for marriage?

[Sara516]

@CM

No. Its not a good idea. All trolling aside, I was born in the 1980s. My cousin’s kid was born 10 years after me in the 1990s. There is a huge damn difference in our outlooks line life and what we consider to be acceptable for a future.

Now this guy is born in the 1970s and she in the 1980s. You know how much in Pakistani culture has changed since then? Age absolutely matters, because it denotes our growth as human beings and more important what era shaped our “tarbiyat”.

I for one will never have my sister marry a guy that is older than her by more than 5 years. 11 years is pathetically absurd.

so that puts you in early to late 20s (or approachin 30)… vs early to late teens…ur rite that is a huge difference, but after a certain age, it doesnt seem to matter as much.

I would have considered an 11-year-older rishta but only if i liked him.