10 tips n 'How to be a Successful Muslim Wife'

LP · November 8, 2009, 2:20pm

i try to do al ltehse for my sartaj

**Here are the tips on ‘How to be a Successful Muslim Wife’ **
     1. Use your 'Fitnah' (beauty    and overtures of allurement) to win the heart of your husband.          
All women have the ornaments that Allah blessed them with. Use the beauty Allah - Azza wa Jal - has bestowed you with to win the heart of your husband.
2. When your husband comes home, greet him with a wonderful greeting.
Imagine your husband coming home to a clean house, an exquisitely dressed wife, a dinner prepared with care, children clean and sweet smelling, a clean bedroom - what would this do to his love for you? Now imagine what the opposite does to him.
3. Review the characteristics of the Hoor Al-Ayn and try to imitate them
The Qur’an and Sunnah describe the women in Jannah with certain characteristics. Such as the silk they wear, their large dark eyes, their singing to their husband, etc. Try it, wear silk for your husband, put Kohl in your eyes to ‘enlarge’ them, and sing to your husband.
4. Always wear jewellery and dress up in the house.
From the early years, little girls have adorned themselves with earrings and bracelets and worn pretty dresses - as described in the Qur’an. As a wife, continue to use the jewellery that you have and the pretty dresses for your husband.
5. Joke and play games with your husband.
A mans secret: they seek women who are light-hearted and have a sense of humour. As Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - told Jabir to marry someone who would make him laugh and he would make her laugh.
6. Thank your husband constantly for the nice things he does. Then thank him again.
This is one of the most important techniques, as the opposite is a characteristic of the women of hellfire.
7. An argument is a fire in the house. Extinguish it with a simple ‘I’m sorry’ even if it is not your fault.
When you fight back, you are only adding wood to the fire. Watch how sweetly an argument will end when you just say sincerely, “Look, I’m sorry. Let’s be friends.”
8. Always seek to please your husband, for he is your key to Jannah.
Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - taught us that any women who dies in a state where her husband is pleased with her, shall enter Jannah. So .. please him.
9. Listen and Obey!
Obeying your husband is Fard! Your husband is the Ameer of the household. Give him that right and respect.
10. Make Dua to Allah to make your marriage and relationship successful.
All good things are from Allah. Never forget to ask Allah ta’ala for the blessing of having a successful marriage that begins in this Dunya and continues on - by the Mercy of Allah ta’ala - into Jannah.

inzi_rocks · November 8, 2009, 2:25pm

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InshaAllah

Gaia · November 8, 2009, 2:30pm

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Ya im just gonna skip over these:@:

inzi_rocks · November 8, 2009, 2:34pm

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^^

Gaia · November 8, 2009, 2:36pm

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what, arafi should love me just the way i am, right:@:???

inzi_rocks · November 8, 2009, 2:38pm

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:halo: uhumm

arafat · November 8, 2009, 2:38pm

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Gaya read this properly

Gaia · November 8, 2009, 2:41pm

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Fine, i read it:snooty:!! I guess i’ll try working on somethings

I made some nihari for you:@:

Dubaiwali · November 8, 2009, 2:55pm

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LOL please tell me this is a joke a hullucination something! not true! When did Gaya and Arafat hook up?

Oh and mA nice tips. Will keep in mind:@:

inzi_rocks · November 8, 2009, 3:04pm

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Aisha oh its true

Gaia · November 8, 2009, 3:06pm

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and

Dubaiwali · November 8, 2009, 3:19pm

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What’s so funny dude? meri territory par kaun aney ki koshish kar raha hai! :aq:

Decent_6Chora · November 8, 2009, 3:25pm

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I can see "10 tips n How to be a Successful Muslim Husband" thread round the corner ...coming soon :)

arafat · November 8, 2009, 4:28pm

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lol

sumosabs · November 8, 2009, 6:20pm

hmmm... and what can the husband do for his wife. To many islamic books emphasize on what the woman can do for the men, but what about a husband do for his wife because there are far to many men that have habits that do not reflect how the prophet (PBUH) treated his wife/wives.

Mamaof3 · November 8, 2009, 6:32pm

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In this day and age, you are sincerely blessed and lucky if you lead the type of life where the husband goes to work and arrives home at dinnertime AND earns enough that the wife can be at home caring for hearth and home. Its a rarity for sure. So in those rare cases, those 10 points are very nice. But its more the exception to the rule these days. In order to make a living and to provide nicely, most couples need to both work. In that case, most of those 10 rules fly right out the window and the rules of being true partners must kick in. Husbands need to get out the vacuum, need to help prepare the dinner,need to change a few diapers and thats life in the 21st century.

LP · November 8, 2009, 7:47pm

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this thread was supposed to be in cafe’

oh n yea cafe’ has the husband wali thread too

LP · November 8, 2009, 8:30pm

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heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy its back to cafe’
so how many of teh newly weds do this :aq:

rabika · November 9, 2009, 7:23am

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nice job LP :k:

_Sh3rY · November 9, 2009, 7:29am

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Girls are always nice and sweet.

At least with me.