10 Golden Rules for Yourself

  1. You should give yourself the same care and attention you give others.

  2. You are not an “endless resource” for others. You must stock up on reserves and not get too drained.

  3. You have needs too, which may be different from your family, friends and colleagues.

  4. You dont have to say “yes” to all requests or feel guilty when saying no.

  5. The perfect person doesn’t exist. The good-enough one does.

  6. You have the right to be treated with respect as a worthwile, intelligent and competent person.

  7. You dont have to have everyone’s approval all the time to know you are trying your hardest.

  8. Time for unwinding is time very well spent.

  9. Making mistakes is not a disaster. You can learn from these and it allows others to as well.

  10. You must be fair to yourself and remember at all time, especially in the face of criticism, anxiety and difficulties. YOU ARE DOING THE BEST THAT YOU CAN…

Re: 10 Golden Rules for Yourself

rules, rules, rules.....in the army we improvise. :D

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Improvise then:p
these are guidelines

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  1. Its not a crime to be a Chav or eat Chaval with Daal.

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:smilestar:

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Issko aik Banner per likh ker saRR per latka kay chala karo :D
j/k

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:bailan:

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oieeeee manu kyun mareya ?

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sidz angel, you are so right,

I wish some body told me that few years ago.....

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bus assey hi dil ker raha tha, itney bari bari baatey kio kerty hoo

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choti toh hoon magar mai barri baatein kerna jaanti ho :stuck_out_tongue:

:naraz:

aur yeh aapkeh liye :smilestar: mujhe mara jo tha :bailan:

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yeh i kno dinzee sumtimes we dont always realise or remember til sum1 tells us :(

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:bummer:

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kiya huwa gizzy pai?
so sad kyun?

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Gizzu: The same case with me nowadays :bummer:

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apney sey barhey per hath utha tey howey sharaam nahi aati :smilestar:

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gizzy bhai.. is it me or r u feelin a bit down..? :konfused:
:bummer:

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nai :smiley:
:bailan:

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sabb hato, thori hawa aaney dow. Gizzy bhai kaa saans phool raha hey.

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gizzy bhai needs to relax for a while away from stress