Re: Your sweet husband
If you have a sweet spouse, be thankful to Allah. If they don't qualify for being 'sweet', be thankful for they are better than many others. If they are a-holes, do a self assessment to see what might be the reason. If you are not the reason, it might not be advisable to waste your life with such a person.
^ and that is the general principle, so I used 'spouse' instead of 'husband'.