Re: You know what I find disturbing?
I dont think so, at least not when they are with someone they respect and love deeply. I know some people may say “that doesn’t mean he can’t think about that” but I think it does come down to how much you respect and are possessive about your partner. Any man who has deep respect for themselves and their wife would never want to be even TOUCHED by another person sexually, let alone letting them do so in front of their wife.