You know what I find disturbing?

[M_was_here]

Re: You know what I find disturbing?

@Xtron

I like to admit that i might BE generalizing the desi or any other guys dislike the idea of threesome (ffm). True!. However, i would like to clarify that your fiance/boyfriend might not want to admit it this fantasy of ffm because they know..this will hurt you. Again i am only saying. Yes we can be sensitive to your feelings like that because we love and respect our wives. Again, there is always gray area.
Also, i completely agree that this idea of ffm is infact dis-respectful to your wife. There is no if or buts about it.

Did you bother reading anything I said? Why can’t you accept that there might be couples out there who ARE comfortable sharing their fantasies whether it’s disrespectful or not and know their partner wont judge them? My partner isn’t afraid of “hurting” me by telling me, I can be a better judge of that since I know him and our relationship dynamic. I dont care if your mind cant accept that there are couples out there where the partners feel safe sharing their deepest secrets/kinks and knowing they will not be judged (again, I don’t care if couples want to have threesomes or whatever, my reason for starting this thread was being angry at the fact that EVERY guy gets categorized as the threesome-wanting male.

So lets cut the “oh, you’re being naive and your man is telling you what you want to hear” lines already. kthanks. And what is up with you constantly saying I remind you of your ex? Maybe your ex was naive and you fed her stories to make her think otherwise? There is a reason she is your ex and you are hers, stuff didn’t work out.