Re: You get married only once…
well, if my children were young and my husband decided to remarry while they were still young, i would want our children to be cared for by my parents or my sister. i couldn’t accept a stranger doing that job.
in the event of death though, i doubt either of us would remarry. i’m sure i won’t and he says he won’t. but you can never tell how time and circumstances will change a person. it may be very disturbing to think about it now but i wouldn’t bind him to something like that and even if i did, i doubt it would hold if he changed his thinking (after my death etc).