You get married only once...

[hareem01]

@Dubaiwali

Write it in your will. Do some insurance.

You mean a will that says if he gets married again he won’t get any money? Well, he doesn’t need my insurance money anyway.

@JimmyKimble

Life aint a bollywood movie. You two have responsibility toward kids too.
For kids even step mum is better the having no mum.
He should get married ASAP for the sake of children and for him self.

Why all that death talk

I never wanted step parents and also i don’t want step mother or father for my kids.
I don’t care about my husband sleeping with a second wife(well i do a bit) but it’s mainly because of my children.

@Iconoclast

Make his married life a nightmare.

After I’m dead?

@Iconoclast

By the way, i agree in getting married only once. I have told my wife if she dies i won’t marry again.

:k:

@shk_14

ITS VERY DIFFICULT FOR A MAN TO LIVE ALONE…VERY RARE OF THEM dOO .as far as ladies can survive with children without married again.

Yeah i know. :hinna:

@Chicken_Biryani

Hareem , whats going on in your mind these days … talk about life and good things woman

I too believe in getting married once , but life can make us see odd things , some people whose spouses pass away early on in life , dont have to live their life all alone .

If I were to pass away , I would want my husband to move on in life and remarry when he feels like it … what is strange though , is that , I wouldnt remarry if godforbid anything happens to him … I dunno its just plain crazy ..isnt it :hinna:

I think it’s a woman’s nature to think like this even if she doesn’t have any kid, thinking about remarrying in such situations feels like betraying your husband.

We talk about this once every year…you know when you have kids you have to think about their future being secured.

@DeSiMuNdA

i think this thread assumes all marriages are perfect…which is certainly not the case…what if it was never perfect to begin with, and hence the divorce? even if there are kids involved…

death of ur spouse is another matter though…

PS why would u want to put such a restriction on ur husband? what bout ur kids?? given that a 2nd wife could never ever replace the mother of the children, it would still be better for them to have a loving step-mother to look over them…just a father’s interaction with their children sometimes isn’t sufficient…

I already mentioned the divorce part. I believe there shouldn’t be divorce between couples with children, just separation but if divorce happens and you have kids then one who keeps the children shouldn’t get married. I just don’t want my kids raised by a step parent.

And i don’t believe if there’s any such thing as “loving step mother”.