It is tempting. No commitment. No strings attached. You can be yourself single and still have a relationship whenever you want, but your heart and emotions are pure.
Sometimes you say things or hear things that you take it seriously. You first think
and than start believing that they can only be said to you. Than you or the other person finds someone else. Same or better than you just the difference is that the person is willing to go extra mile that you were not willing for. You become the second option. Both try to keep the relationship and emotions intact but it does not work. In the end, you wish you never had that person in your life to begin with.
it complicates thing.. because you never know when you can start actually liking the person.. and what if they dont feel the same way back, then? dont set yourself up for a fall.. unless you two are kind of lingering the situation on and trying to play hard to get with each other... then you both know that you will fall for each other ultimately...
Ladies I deal with ever changing shades of grey with a few pink polka dots thrown in the midst. What you see as the same topic is simply your inability to comprehend the subtlety of my comments.