Re: Yeh Bhi Kisi Ki Beyti Hae
So I watched it the first time yesterday. I don't know what episode it was but anyway I've never been too much interested in typical dramas where everyone has so many betiyan and they're always worried about their shadiyan. I never found anything impressive or interesting so far. Infact, I found something nasty and very unusual.
So they show how this girl (shifa) has been married few days ago but she used to like some guy before shadi. Her saas (naheed shabbir) finds out and asks her if she wants seperation from her son boht pyar bharay andaaz main (unusual saas). So this is a typical desi girl and tries to live happily with her husband (Saleem Sheikh) and compromises with her new life.
Then they had this scene where they show the husband/wife in bed, lights off, the girl sits up and buttons up her shirt and takes her dupatta (that was thrown on the lamp) and puts on her bangles (thrown on the bed). I was SHOCKED. All of a sudden I yelled out "what the hell is going on". Well it makes sense in a way that the girl is being loyal to her husband but they really didn't have to show that the couple just had sex. Then she makes the BIGGEST MISTAKE of her life and tells her husband that she was in a serious relationship before shadi. Now he hasn't been talking to her ALTHOUGH HE asked her and really insisted her to tell him if she was interested in someone else. Now he's living with the thought that it's just been a few weeks since they've been married so it's obvious that his wife would still be interested in that guy and love him.
Dramas like these really freak me out. First the girl doesn't get married to her first love. Then her parents make her marry some guy she doesn't even know. Then she has to make stupid compromises with her married life and hubby and has to start "physical" relations with her husband whether she likes it or not. Then her hubby finds out about her first love. And now she has to suffer through his ghatiya mood and the rest of her life with someone who knows about her past relationship and someone she never portrayed her future with. Whatever happens...larkiyan are the only ones to suffer. Our society is unfair.
I'm not watching this drama again.