Re: y do good girls always go for bad boys?
there are good people and then bad people in both genders.
some are nice and some are mean. some are transparent and selfless, others conniving and cunning.
some value intellect, others value the bodies.
the pick is really of the couple.
ideally, knowing one person to eventually marry to, should be the norm.
& when you begin seeing that person from this point of view, the waste, unnecessary disappointment and deliberate loss of self respect wont will be avoided by the very nature of the manner in which two good people, sincerely meet and build a relationship.
it is also sadly true that you could be an open book, but the other individual could be absolutely two faced or a liar.
both genders can have this bad quality.
the question can also arise, to whom to bad men go?
if women are self sure, confident and know what they would want in a good spouse - their husbands, then no one will have to see anyone who is bad.
being clear about one's own intentions & about other peoples' is the first step to building a pious and dignified relationship.
best,
Dushwari