Would you marry an ex-gay? (merged)

Re: Ladies, would you marry an “ex” gay?

I’ll disagree with you here. I have a friend who was gay for a few years but he has ‘turned’ for lack of a better word. He now dates women exclusively. And before you talk about social pressures causing this shift, he was openly gay, his family knew, his workplace knew (Major Hollywood studio so they’re not homophobic) and all his friends knew. That’s not the only case, there’s a couple of other references he gave us when he was down to meet all his mates.

Apparently this isn’t impossible and happens from time to time. People change their sexual orientation. Also, its not as black and white as gay/straight. Societal conditioning plays as much a part in that as anything else. And I even know some gay people who know they’re gay but do not act upon it. They view it as a test from Allah. And MashaAllah they’re super religious, more than me.

So I don’t know, its not a clear-cut case or whatever. As long as they keep their business to themselves, I can get along with them.