LP
July 16, 2017, 12:01pm
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Re: work/study after marraige
there is often the question if its easy to study after marriage but really is not this the same as working after marriage? actually is not studying in a way more flexiable and possibly even less intense? (unless maybe if your studying med? ) because not all classes are compulsory, alot of the study can be done online, so if you manage your time well..iam sure 4hrs a day can b taken out for study and maybe a little bit more closer to exams and then the few hours that you may need to attend face to face a few days a week? compared to working 9-5 every day , possibly even after hours…
i guess it does become a little more complicated if you bring children in the picture…but i guess thats why they have childcare…
really if the girl is carer orientated her career is important to her and although everyone compromises to say you have to completely leave one thing for the other is never fair …i guess for most things you have to keep studying (pretty much through out life to advance your career) etc so really if someone is okay with you working then they should not have a problem with study , that should be easier than working after marriage?
should not it ? or is working after marriage and studying after marriage two completely different things? and one really is that much more difficult than the other, if you are a girl…??
Both are very different things and both have their high and low times. It’s the priorities which matter, for the person studying / working as well as for her spouse. If both the spouse’s are supportive of each other’s study or work environment and give higher priority to the spouse then the issues which arise can be easily solved.