Women who abandon their children

[Sara516]

Re: Women who abandon their children

@chips6

I am not sure if either one of the parent has or will remarry.BUT the thing I know is that it will mess up the kids for life.The culture we belong to,will always taunt them about the way how their mom abandoned them.It was never their fault but they will bear the consequences.

but who would do that though? the taya/tayi? Or random strangers?

@chips6

I don’t know.If you are bitterly miserable,you can call it quits.It will be unfortunate for the kids…but then you can share custody.It is way better than just abandoning them with one parent.
I also know unhappy and incompatible parents give rise to scarred children.They might appear normal but the damages the parents’ bad chemistry can cause are way deep…!!

Unfortunately that’s life, you can’t go back and rewind and see what would bring a better outcome years down the line…

I don’t understand why someone would go through fertility treatments only to abandon them later…is it possible at all that she was/is mentally ill and it’ was an extreme case of post partum depression?