Women In Hijab.

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Re: Women In Hijab.

Bhai, Allah (swt) definitely wants to give us all hidayat. But He also expects from us a bit of effort in this regard.

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Tell the believing men to lower their gaze and be modest. That is purer for them. Lo! Allah is aware of what they do. *(Sura 24:30) *
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Intentionally not using 'Dawah' (medicine) and relying only on 'Dua' (prayers) isn't logical. It applies to everyone of us.

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Re: Women In Hijab.

I have no valid reason to disagree with you, Brother. Insaan key amaal aur uss key dil ka haal, Allah swt sey behtur koi insaan khud nahi jaanta.

Koshish jaaree hai aur insha'Allah rahaay gi.

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Re: Women In Hijab.

I think it is the association of dupatta/hijab and innocent untouched woman who is gentile and you can protect which attracts you??

Hypothetically, you meet a hijaaban who does hijaab purely for her religion she is good muslim, however she is fiesty in nature and controlling...

would your attraction still lie there?

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O..inspiron gota good one. Welll i wouldn't be attracted. Therefore Hijab or no hijab..to me doesn't make any difference.

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1st things 1st, lets not bring innocence in the mix. I wouldn't even bring it in if I was untouched myself. People make mistakes, and by that I mean everyone.

I could protect my mother (non hijaaban) and my sister (hijaaban) equally. Infact I could do more for the mother. So its not exactly where the attraction lies. Its just, I find something oddly extraordinary about Hijaabans that I come across in my life that attracts me to them, perhaps its the positivity they bring in? Or maybe the less pretentiousness and more closeness to reality sort of attraction? I've honestly not been able to relate my likeness to the tee to them but what I do know is that whenever I see them or interact with them, I feel more safe/peaceful/real with them, something I don't often feel with non Hijabans/Dupatta orers.

5 out of 10 Hijabans could well be of the sort I may be speaking of, while in non hijaabans/dupattans case I could foresee the decline coming to somewhere about 2 or 3 out of 10. Again, no offense to the one's who don't do any of it, and for the sake of mentioning, I do not have no sunnati daari myself either.

Talking about fiesty or the controlling sort, I've experienced two non-hijabans that were just the same sort, one actually was pretty possessive and more frequently controlling, yet controllable herself in the end. So a Hijaaban/Duppattan couldn't do more wrong than her now can she, except ofcourse in a few exclusive cases?.

My main interest in a Hijaaban/Dupattan would lie within the religious insight she would bring in my life and the one's to follow. Not mentioning the fact that I could start my day on a positive note just by seeing her face and not by relying on a cup of coffee/tea to get it going. Its really hard to explain to say the least.

Again its more to do with the positivity than the gorgeous little eye's or the model'ish features that are obvious to one's eye in the beginning. (something another member mentioned earlier) Its actually more to do with the positive surrounding from a grand scheme of things sort of outlook. Again, unexplainable. Wish I could do better though. But yes, the interest/attraction would stay where it initially stood, insha'Allah.

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I am sorry I have not read the whole thread, you seem quite sensible though so, I am pretty certain you must have said somewhere that you are not generalising either hijaaban or non hijaaban.

Either could be of good charcter and either could be of bad character ?

In my life I have come across amazing amzaing hijabi girls who inspire me and I love chatting too and who have open hearts.

I have also come across hijabis who straddle their boyfriends in the park.

I have also come across non hijabis are spitural and religious and amazing people.

I have come across non hijabis who also straddle their boyfriends in the park.

Surely, everyone should be judged as an individual?

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Definitely. I have equal respect for a Hijaban or a non. Neeyat saaf, manzil asaan, regardless if they're Hijaabi or Non.

Indeed, In fact I actually mentioned about coming across two different charactered Hijaabis. One who wore the hijaab or dupatta yet do not consider thinking twice before slandering or backbiting against other fellow Muslims. While the other who tries her best to avoid any of it and to her best of abilities. Worth a mention, the latter isn't perfect either and is destined to make a mistake every now and then.

The straddlers are the one's I'm specifically seeking to avoid. Besides, who knows whats written in my kismut, as that's something I have no control over. I could wish for the late Diana to come back, will she or not is for everyone to easily guess.

Spiritual/religious influence is one of the reasons why I'd be head over heels about them. Not even me but I could foresee a well balanced future for the whole extended family (if any). Hijaabis are quiet the influential sort of people and a lot actually do buy their beliefs and eventually have more chances to listen/follow them.

Judgement is not my call, I dare not judge anyone for that matter. And may Allah swt make sure I never do. Its his (Allah swt's) sole right to judge out anyone he wishes to, not mine.

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Hijab is One of duties of muslim.
Ab mere Ye samajh nahi ata jab koi aurat hijab pehenti hai ya Mard darhi/beard rakhta hai to hum usase ek dum wali banjane ki ummid kartein hain?
Agar usame koi kami ho to Uska Hijab Aur Darhi Zaya.....Dost mere Bina darhi or Hijab ke Hum bi to wahi sab kartein hain
To Agar hijab pehananese aur darhi rakhnese Hum kamaz kam ek Achha kaam to Kar hi saktein hain.
Agar kisine Darhi rakh kar ya hijab pehan kar jhut Baat kar di to hum usko bhala Bura kehtein hain Magar ye nahi sochtein
Ke kya Bina Darhi aur Hijab wale Muslamaan aur muslimaah ke liye bi jhut jaaiz nahi....