Women Chase Men, and Men Just Sit on Their Rumps?

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You don't say PCG.

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no i dont think so....guys pursue women when they're interested....women pursue men when they're interested...and maybe both tend to overdo it when they fail to recognize the other party's already taken/not attracted to u?

also it depends what the guy's looking for....a one night stand...yeah he'll put in some effort....or if he's ready to settle down, he'll put in a lot more effort for the right grl.

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I once read Pamela Anderson lamenting that men aren't as persistent in pursuing a woman as they used to be. So if she, with all her assets, can't hold a man's attention for long then there might be some truth to it.

Now don't throw the fact that women like her never or rarely interest men looking for long term relationship at me!

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Why does she require persistence on part of men? Why isnt being approached enough?
You approach someone, theyre not interested, you get lost...thats how its supposed to be.

Princess Pam doesnt realize that she not only requires men to approach her, but also pursue her and be persistent in their effort to win her (jaded) heart over, yet she probably expects her presence alone to be an honor for men.

Also bear in mind the difference between 'persistence' and 'stalking' depends merely upon a woman's whims. Technically speaking Edward Cullen should be the most notorious stalker (spies on Bella while she sleeps) yet women are crazy for him.

Women are so blinded by their own perspective, its nauseating.

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lol the author of twilight knows women enjoy that kind of attention coming from the right guy (a gorgeous, extremely rich alpha male, with a super sensitive nature, with superhuman powers) oh yeah!

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Being approached is not in the same vicinity as being seriously pursued. The former could be just implusive, the latter is more assuring.

And seriously Edward Cullen's the best example you could refer to? It's tweenage fiction for crying out loud. Now if you had said Jacob Black then I totally agree.

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Women dont mind having disturbingly sick things done to them if the guy is very attractive. ...Just read 50 shades of Gray.

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Ah and here I was trying to come back at Khumar with a witty retort; you've well and truly ruined my parade :(

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BUUUUUUUURNNNNNNNNNNNN

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The very very persistent one isn't letting off.......

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Exactly the scholar we should be turning to when debating this issue :)

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Should have just asked when the birthday was

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One cannot magically create attraction. Attraction is natural and effortless. Its based on what the person looks like, who the person is, where he is....not on the efforts he makes. Women know this very well but are often reluctant to admit this. Men readily buy into this as they are incredibly ignorant when it comes to women.

Who pursues whom depends upon who desires whom. Not on a supposed hasbeen cultural expectation that men should pursue women. Ones who desire pursue the desirable. Pyaasa hi kuay kay paas jata hai. It tells us something very insightful about the fact that women rarely pursue men.