Janwr, I dont understand why you always feel slighted by the comments by the swaths of "feminazis" as you call them.
In your desi mother land the female RIGHTS movement, where women are seen beyond their special-places is lagging about a century behind. So when we see how well our compatriates are being treated and what we have in store for us, are women going to be angry? Yes they are. But you little to be concerned about. You arent going to be married to a man who inevitably love someone before you, will chain you either metaphoricaly or literally :) to a kitchen. Nor will you be subject to the desi society that lauds men and tells them they are perfect in all their imperfection whilst taunting the many deficiencies of women.
That is a condition you can not understand. It is equivilient to the black rights movement, except women are still slaves all over the world. Including Pakistan. Was the KKK therefore a jusfified movement to counter Malcolm X's proclamation of "white devil"?
I think its highly embarassing when otherwise functioning males misread the discontent voiced by many women here as personal attacks. You are the aggressors. If women didnt feel so perpetually wronged then perhaps we wouldnt have to call anyone up on it. If that upsets you then I suggest you start with a reeducation programme.
^ a speech like that, ideally delivered in a five star environment, can melt hearts and raise good money for the plight of slave women around the world. And could have your pictures published in international humanitarian journals.
If you happen to pass through the desi motherland, the on ground situation isn't actually as bad as you have made yourself believe. Interesting thing is, in majority cases where a woman is treated as a slave, the cause of that ill treatment is another woman. Most of the men are manipulated either by their wives or by their mothers/sisters. Both parties try, one of the two succeeds. Better if you direct your passive aggressiveness towards the actual cause of the problem. Man, in most cases, is a tool. It is quite easy for a woman to manipulate a man - examples of which you see around you everyday. Sad but true.
And I won't even comment on the black rights part. The comparison is nothing but mockery.
I dont think you understand what I mean by Slave-women. You dont have to thronned in Iron to be shackled down. If you understood, then you would know that at least black people had a tangiable way to be free - they had visable scarring. Whereas most women, don't. Nor are you giving men the credit they deserve for entrenching their superiority in every domain. Not limited to the battle fields of Pakistani domestic politics.
Actually I didn't take the slavery bit literally. Victim card isn't anything new here, that train is never late. Just that it is a bit over the top the way you have dealt it. And I think you took my use of 'slave women' quite literally though.
The guys I know that are the most ‘womanisers’ are the ones that are fiercely protective of their sisters. Have known guys who used to treat their gf’s like sh*t, but when it came to their sister…oh boy…Hypocritical to say the least.
I don’t have sisters but I have cousins who I am VERY protective off e.g. if they get stared at etc so when I do some staring I keep this in mind that the girl is someones sister, daughter etc. Doesnt work always but I try to.
Spot on. :k: This abuse in Pakistan that goes on is due to women too as much as men (ok not as much but still…). The same women that get abused do the abusing when they become an authority figure e.g. saas…etc..instead of standing up for the poor girl.
I think jimmy's percentage break down seems pretty accurate.
The concept that another woman could be someone's daughter is above your heads. You only realize it when you have daughters. Then you spend the rest of your life protecting them from male scum.
Thank you, i love reading your posts because your the only one i agree with.
I wish men understood this. And have you notice'd that men that have a reputation and mess around with women then after they have kids they tend to only have daughters??
coincidence????? I dont think so!!!!!
dude take my advice don’t test you theories with your family member being the test bed.
There are million things you metropolitanABCD children have no clue about.
Guy in the story P(perpetrator) wanted to fuk S(sister) and B(brother).
And he did in frindly manner.
now B was being litte too sister “friendly”.
NOW explaing US (protective brothers)-- some time we have to see beyond what our high on BollyWood sisters “feel” and we do what it right.
Normally our sister get married and live happly life and can’t stop loving US.
Since getting married is the ulitmate goal of women we should call them successful girls.