Oh yes, now lets go ahead and disguise your natural ability to never understand a woman by calling it flamebait...
Nice retreat!
Retreating is nothing more than advancing in a different direction :D
Now MIA. The post though flamebait has a few aspects of truth. One thing desi women in general do not understand or do not wish to understand is that nobody can make them do anything they do not wish to do. They rather play the victim or the martyr.
For any action taken by you or against you, the individual has a part to play. If you take the action it is your own damn fault you messed up.
If it is taken against you it is your own damn fault for allowing it to happen. However the desi women on this website tend to take every opportunity availabe to play the martyr or victim and not take the blame for their actions or inactions.