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I am a drop dead gorgeous husband and my wife is fortunate to have me. However the ladies at my work don't give a damn and try every possible means to get into my pants. Being a faithful husband and all, I stay work oriented but my wife always has her doubts. I can't help her if I look so good. She should be happy i'm coming home to her and not to someone else.
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^seef ..aren't we so modest ? :p well it isnt her fault either that you r as you put it 'drop dead gorgeous' and it is your duty to remain faithful to her ..she's just insecure. she'd be over that. just ignore for a while and be patient. and yea most importantly be hers truly :)
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Well i'm considered way above average amongst my peers and my wife knows it. She should be happy she makes dinner for me. Sometimes I feel like I should have multiple wives because 1 woman doesn't deserve me, but she always gets mad.
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like i said ignore for a while ..how long have you guys been married ? arranged ?
Well i'm considered way above average amongst my peers and my wife knows it. She should be happy she makes dinner for me. Sometimes I feel like I should have multiple wives because 1 woman doesn't deserve me, but she always gets mad.
hahahaha...aik ka shaq control kia nahi jata...or app char char ka shaq control kerin gain :p
BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHA
funniest post ever.
like i said ignore for a while ..how long have you guys been married ? arranged ?
I got married when I was 18. I'm 25 now. It wasn't arranged. She used to be really hot back then.
we have been married for over 5 years now and have mashallah 2 little oens. but my other half still have in security that i will leave her any day.
reason being it was an arranged marriage and she was selected by my family in an typical arranged marriage. so she believe if a guy can accept a girl blindly cause family selected it, he can also leave the girl if his family say so!
I always rejected this theory, its not the case, i may have agreed to this marriage on my family's approval. but it cant be reversed the same way cause you have built a relationship which wasnt there when we married. but she hardly believe in it.
this is bit annoying but deep down i know of myself and my family and they always wanted this to work as they feel responsible if something goes wrong between us.
so i just stopped convincing her, and said well when you are 80 years old and still married to me then i will ask you about it! as by that time it will be already proven :)
how you guys think of this whole situation? well never my life i am failed to convince anybody, be it friends or girl friends, even enemies, but wives are different breed altogether.
Well. This is a pretty normal situation. Women are programmed to be insecure because they want (have) to ensure the long term security of their kids and themselves. From her point of view, she is right because instinctively she knows that men have the capacity and the urge to find other mates. So whatever you do, it will be a futile effort to address her fears.
apnay moo say apni tareef:omg:she was hot back now what happened ya to islam may b nahi hay kay wife hot na rahay to leave her and by ur point of view it looks like kay app ka dil bhar gaya hay wo usi tarha sweet ho ghy… u dont respect ur wife at all :(.
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ek to i dont get it !
when a girlfriend acts POSSESSIVE or gets jealous easily the guy goes all 'aww that makes you look so cute...or i love it when you pout like that it makes me feel special'
and when the same girl becomes your wife and she shows her insecurities or gets a little jealous or possessive..the guy's like 'GIVE ME A BREAK...i need some space of mine ..'
sounds familiar mr drop dead gorgeous? :p (Seef)
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Thats a good name "Mr Drop Dead Gorgeous".... I can imagine the office scene....
He says "Do you think I'm gorgeous?" and the office gals reply
"Drop dead".
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Speak some english, she is still pretty good looking. And yes I respect my wife you doofus. Don’t put badua into my relationship.
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yeah sure i can see ur respect attitude......!
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its normal every lady behaves this way,the risk of losing someone always haunts!!
gurls dunt judge him n take out mistakes of where he is going rong...when she has a gud guy on her hands im not suprised whyy shes insecured :) im sure she knws how hard it is to find sincere guys these days!
take the insecurity as a complimentary gift, part of the pakage of finding the best gurl ever,the best mother & the one u have promised to love n commit forever.
p.s: even at 80 shell be the same :) njoy the love cuz it just eans tht she loves u enough to feel u might slip away (twisted? i know...but thts how we are)