^I was about to ask a similar question.
How much time do you give to your wife and how do you spend it usually? also, is she the youngest in her siblings?
Besides, you should comfort her and assure her each time she shows her concerns, that's what good husbands do.
she behaves as youngest of her siblings, but she is eldest who had never any responsibilities, as after college, she moved to another city for studies and stayed in hostel visiting home only as a pampered guest. and after she finished studies, a year after she got married.
we daily have dinner together daily once i am back from office, spent some time playing with my 2 year old son and bit with 3 months old one :) sometime we watch movie together. some coversation. and always un ending super market list, which i would like do it once a week, always something left and i end up picking up these 2 or 3 times a week on the way back or after having dinner.
both of us dont sleep early and go to bed after mid night!