Without parents approval

Re: Without parents approval

Agree with Aishaaa2.1, try and talk to an imam or at least a sympathetic elder or family member to talk sense into her. If you two really love each other keep trying and be patient, tell him to keep telling his Mum how serious he is about u, I know some parents think when their kids meet someone it’s not serious and it will soon be forgotten so she has to be convinced that u two are determined to be together and she can’t just act like you are not in the picture.. Running away might seem like the ‘easy’ solution now but honestly think of all the headache you’d have to deal with when u get back and if his Mum is against the two of u now things will be 100x worse if u elope. I know some couples do it as they have no other way of being together but it should be the absolute last resort imo..

My Mum was dead against my brother’s engagement but he kept telling her how much he loved the girl and how miserable he would be if he couldn’t marry her. He often ended up in tears over it and my Mum soon backed down, she still isn’t 100% happy but I expect as she gets to know the girl more and more she’ll become happier.. My Dad supported my brother so that helped as well, if he didn’t have anyone older to stick up for him who knows what would have happened in the end..